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By Mindy Pollack-Fusi, Globe Correspondent, 10/23/2003
Soon after Maine native Travis Roy graduated from Boston
University in 2000 and decided to stay in the area, he moved into a
beautiful Back Bay building with a striking stone stairway and lovely
lobby, complete with 24-hour concierge. For Roy, the elegant building was
a necessity, not a luxury: It is one of only a few area condominiums
accessible to the disabled. The former BU hockey player, whose tragic
accident on the ice eight years ago this week left him a quadriplegic,
says it would be ''nice to use the front entrance.'' Still, a rear
entryway and elevator, the concierge services, and the convenient
Commonwealth Avenue location provide him the independence he craves.
''Some things people look at as luxuries are necessary
for me to be able to live on my own,'' he says, explaining that he can
order groceries from Peapod and get laundry services or other amenities
from outside. The concierge helps as needed. Roy likes to shop at the
nearby Trader Joe's or Whole Foods, dine at area restaurants, and cheer on
the BU Terrier hockey team at the arena several blocks away.
''Boston is just such an awesome city,'' he says.
''Since my accident, people have treated me so well.'' (On Oct. 20, 1985,
just 11 seconds into the BU Terriers' game, his first as a college player,
Roy slammed into the end boards head first.)
Roy, 28, lives in a two-bedroom condominium and has
home health aides who support him with basic needs but are unobtrusive to
visitors. His home appears no different from that of any young
professional man. A collection of brightly colored race cars lines a shelf
above a long parquet hallway, and a framed picture of Bobby Orr hangs on
one wall. Items from Maine remind him of home, including a large model
sailboat, a lobster trap coffee table, and a corner table that friends
built with wood from a 150-year-old dam.
''I try to keep my place as normal-looking as possible,
not filled with adaptive technology,'' he says, explaining that many
devices previously used to help disabled people are now mainstream.
Speakerphones, voice-activated equipment, and remote controls help him
answer the phone, use a computer, and operate the television, which is
often on and tuned to sports.
A self-described ''sports junkie,'' he says it's fun to
be in a ''sports-crazed city.'' He loves all sports, especially playoffs,
which made the activity at Fenway this month particularly exciting. In
fact, from the large, airy windows of his seventh-floor apartment, Fenway
Park is visible to the right and the Prudential Center skyline to the
left.
Roy redesigned his kitchen -- renovated by a Maine
neighbor -- so he could maneuver his wheelchair easily and sit at the
counter. Complete with Corian countertops and decorative green and white
floor tiles, the kitchen also sports Henckel knives and All-Clad cookware.
''It's nice having the right stuff,'' he says.
He loves to cook, and while his injury restricts him to
the use of his neck, head, and upper right arm, Roy directs every step
while an aide or friend does the physical work.
''I give extra-thorough directions and basically cook
it, except for physically stirring the pots and pans,'' he says.
He recently cooked chicken Francoise, and he likes to
make ''the meals my mom cooked: pot roast, apple crisp, and fun things.''
When visiting his parents in Yarmouth, Maine, he tends
to another interest, gouache painting. His art teacher places a brush in
his mouth and holds the paints and water. Roy mostly paints still lifes
and flowers. He and his teacher, Susan Myer Fahlgren, head of the fine
arts department at North Yarmouth Academy in Maine, currently have a joint
show at the school, which Roy attended. (Three paintings are on loan from
his dining room.)
Roy also enjoys going to restaurants with close
friends, including his former BU coach, Jack Parker, and Parker's wife,
Jackie (''I love both of them''), and friends from college and prep school
days. Asked if he is in a romantic relationship, he answers, in
characteristic good humor, ''Just Effy,'' his 14-year-old springer spaniel
who lives with his parents in Maine and at their summer place on Lake
Champlain in Vermont.
A motivational speaker with a bachelor's degree in
public relations, he addresses some 35 groups a year on ''Travis Roy's 10
Rules of Life,'' which he devised originally for a high school
presentation when he was 20. ''These values are the reason I've been as
successful as I have before and after the accident,'' he says.
His rules, which include being yourself, never taking
things for granted, and setting goals, appear in his book, ''Eleven
Seconds'' (Warner Books), which he co-wrote with sportswriter E.M. Swift
in 1998. While he is proud of the effort, he says he will write another
book only ''if there's a cure for spinal cord injuries someday.''
He is closely involved with The Travis Roy Foundation,
which supports spinal cord research and provides grants to victims of
spinal cord paralysis. The foundation holds several annual fund-raisers. (Donations
may be made through travisroyfoundation.org.)
Clearly, Roy has reinvented his life as best he can;
yet he laments one major thing.
''I'm still in search of a passion,'' he says. ''I have
found things I enjoy, but nothing to replace the love that I had for
playing hockey.''
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